The reality of adults not having children

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Hello Coffee lovers,

As I sit here with my caramel latte I started to think about many people who have issues giving birth or even conceiving.I suggest that you take a nice strong coffee or something that will make you take while having this conversation.


There are a couple reasons while some adults can not have children, for example: personal, lifestyle, or economic reasons.

Here are some to mention

Ovulatory disorders: Problems with the release of eggs in women.(ovulate) each month.

Endometriosis: A condition where tissue similar to the uterine lining grows outside the uterus.

Low sperm count or low testosterone: Issues with sperm production or hormone levels in men.

Age:  For women over 35 fertility declines rapidly.

Other medical conditions: Certain diseases, like pelvic inflammatory disease, can affect fertility.

Lifestyle factors: Smoking, excessive alcohol or drug use, and exposure to environmental toxins can impact fertility.

Undescended testicle or injury to the scrotum/testes: Can affect sperm production in men.

Desire to focus on other priorities: Careers, travel, personal interests.

Lifestyle choices: A preference for a child-free lifestyle, valuing freedom and independence.

Partner preference: One or both partners may not want children.

Not feeling a desire to have children: Some individuals simply don't have the urge to parent.

These are so many facts to consider, and it does not get any easier in these situations but i think many people who have kids don’t realize those who do not there is always a reason. These problems are a messy cocktail of money, stress and life just creeping up on us. Then there are those who get a feeling of freedom to the factor. Especially knowing how the world is today.

Those who really want to have these children it may be so hard for them not only mentally but financially as well. There are doctor’s bills, medication and other things that may make it even harder. Some even try to have counseling to keep all these emotions from bursting out. 

As for those who chose not to,it's okay to think about yourself. You know what life you choose. Just know whichever path either one takes is yours to bear and I wish you all the luck in the world to help guide you.

Until our next conversion see you Lattee.

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