My morning Cafe

Hello  Coffee Lovers, Today was a big mile stone in my life where i just brought my Cap & Gown. If you know me this has been a big struggle to even get this far in college.I am 41 about to graduate college and i am the brightest person i know but i do have one thing for me is i never give up.I never stop to i succeed until i conquer what i want to accomplish in the first  moment i thought of it. When i first got the email about my graduation i did not believe it.I must of read it a few times until it sucked in.Before you know it i started to over think since i still have classes before graduation. I was worried what if i don't pass it? What will i do how sad will i be? One thing also about me is that as much as i want to succeed i am also scared to succeed because it can change my life. Have you ever been scared of the next step in your life?  Well yet i feel the way i feel i have family and friends that keep me afloat.They know me just as much and they kn...

Hello my  coffee lovers, How is everything going? I hope all is well despite of what the world is becoming. Today I need some advice so I suggest you make sure you get a double espresso for the question I have to ask. Now that we got our expressos let's pull up a chair and talk. I have a teenage boy who for many years knew he wanted to be a math teacher as an adult.Now that he is 16 he doesn't want to be a math teacher anymore. He is in 11th grade and has become a bit interested in the world since he has been doing school online. He doesn't even care to want to do the S.A.T which I kind of blame myself for being so busy with work that I am not focusing as much as I should. Many people would say send him back to school but as a mom i don't think i am ready for him to go back because i rather him not catch what is out there.I rather him be a bit lazy then loose his life but it could be the  mom in me overreacting. My son is starting to get college stuff ineth ...

Hello my coffee lovers, Lately I been fighting with myself about letting friends go. If anyone knows me, I am well like a rug and I been walked on more than enough times. I am getting to the point of trying to figure out why do I keep my toxic friends.   Ow when I say toxic friends its when you make a list of pros and cons and if you pay attention Some friendships might not have such a positive effect. Others might be downright toxic. You the bad out ways the good then it is time to let go. Some people can also use this for their mates. Its becoming a new year and we already have things going on we can not handle as is just to keep the problem that can easily get rid of. Yet I know it may seem hard I am still in mines. When it comes to Friendship, they should help make life more meaningful more excitement. When I mean when you see these friends do you smile, or do you go “Oh God” when they mention going to see you. I been and I am sure many of you guys been holding...

Hello coffee Lovers,  I know I have been gone for long times and I apologize for that life really got in the way and I am only human. Today I want to talk about something that maybe has a few heads turning to see how it will go with will be ahead of the red table. So, get together bring our tables together no matter what color it may be and let’s talk about Will smith’s reunion as he hosted Red table talk. Many people have issues who have family issues or friends’ issues bemuse thing went too far. Many of us try and stay angry and do not make amends because of what they been through. Some have logic reason s not to talk again but so many other issues can be mended can be fix especially when life is going by, and you have so many regrets. Will smith took time to mend that and talk about it to on the red table. The fact that had the chance to reunite at all is a big deal and very healing process. I been through allot of through family and friends as well. I have not been ...

Hello, coffee Lovers, I know its been awhile since i wrote anything at all but i had to come back to my coffee lovers to discuss this movie everyone has an issue with. I hope you have your espresso ready because i need you guys to soak in what we are about to talk about. This morning i was in the car listening to the radio and how disgusted these people were with this movie. They mentioned it was about young girls who were acting too provocatively for their age. Of cousre i had to see it for myself. So i took time to watch itt and analyze it as much as i can. Yes, it was hard to watch these girls act like that and dress like that but i saw the real story towards it. This young girl missed her dad because he was never around and when he comes back, he is with another woman he is to be married to. In certain cultures things like this happen  and the older wife has to basically deal with it as is. As for a young girl who still can't concept the fact this is happeneing acts...

Good afternoon coffee lovers, Hey, my coffee drinkers, I know its been so long since we had a conversation. Like everyone else, I have been dealing with the new norm of the year 2020. I know your coffee drinking been cold and frozen these days, this weather has us up and down. Let us grab this table(outside) and talk about starting over in life. Lately, I have been as much as I love New York but I think its time to move on to the next chapter. My first move was to get into another company, which I succeeded in surprising. I must admit I questioned myself like I did with all the new things I do. I needed to be more confident and I am getting there, it is only been a bit, so I am still doing what I need to do. I have been going through things that has tested the very ability of my mind and soul. It's hard starting over and there are things I am still getting used to. It is harder as well when you have children because you have to deal with switching over there life as ...

Hello coffee lovers, I know the world is slowing getting back to normal hopefully not to normal we need the world to be better. I want to talk to you about a show that is on Netflix and I watched it for a couple of years. These five fabs have changed my life without even knowing me.  These guys take the lives of people and they make their lives go upside down to right side up. By the way, I am not just talking about their homes I am talking about who they are in the inside who they see in the mirror. When I watch this show I am crying I am laughing, I even think about things I can change in my home and life. I always have lived to satisfy everyone and chose me last. The fab five showed me its fine to think about yourself it is fine to love yourself. I know we all have so much going on and we are taking care of others and we have been overwhelmed with everything in the world right now but take time for you. We are neglecting ourselves sometimes and not realizing i...

Hello coffee lovers, Everyone has been on high alert lately and I am not just talking about the double espresso. This year has been hard on many of us and we have lost so many lives over these few months. When I say losing lives I am not just talking about COVID, I am talking about the abuse of many that lead to losing lives. Believe it or not from police department members themselves. I believe and this is only my opinion is that fear is getting to us all. We are all reacting in ways that we should have been thinking twice about. Am I making an excuse for the police, nope? I think abuse of any kind form anybody is very awful altogether. Today I saw a video that was I can only assume a rally from my fellow African Americans in Minneapolis .  There was a rally there because they are tired of the abuse and the cruelty against them. They are loosing more and more lives just trying to breathe in the area of where they live.  This rally was based on a gentlema...

                                               To my readers What’s in your coffee? Written by vanessaAwriter I hear a hush beyond the many, I feel the light above my face I know I am getting ready, by the looks upon your embrace. They fix the microphone and I fix my shirt,  I see the audience and a couple as they flirt. I take a sip of water because I feel a bit dry, I am getting ready to walk on stage with a cup of chai, I am breathing all of it inside before I realize, Why do I have tea in my hand when I ask for coffee? They switched it faster then I can finish my walk on stage, I am no longer afraid to face the hush, because that means your drinking coffee we prived   And  it's so good that they rushe...

Hello coffee lovers, I hope many of you are having better days, and really took time to thank those who actually inspires you to be better like the conversation we last had. Today it was very interesting I love coffee had two cups but couldn't finish them. Can my body be asking for a coffee break? It better not be. Today I want to take a small turn into your subconscious. I have been really noticing people who have shown their true colors or more like a person you have never seen today. Today I saw someone actually push a gentleman who was just working because she felt he was too close. Yet it is not like he was just standing in one spot, he was more on the move picking up his packages and going back and forth.  Now why I mention this person was not to bring them out but more to give us a chance to realize since this year has started anger has become a big issue. Are the news bringing you to a point of wanting to become violent? People are not realizing how they are tr...